Showing posts with label handmade shop. Show all posts
Showing posts with label handmade shop. Show all posts

Thursday, 26 April 2018

Making Memories

Making memories is a bit of a buzzword at the moment. We’re not going shopping kids, we're playing board games and making memories. We are not just going for a walk, we are making memories.

You know what though, it works. Laughing together over silly things, it matters. When I think about my childhood I think of lots of walks on the moors, climbing trees in the field, meeting friends on my bike, going to see relatives, creating slug and snail obstacle courses in the garden ( yes really! ), doing jigsaws in front of the fire, that time I stood on a rusty nail and had to hop all the way home, climbing inside the paper recycling bins - the smell! 

None of those things were expensive, although they may have been quite specific to a rural childhood. 
When I ask others about their memories of people, it’s very rare that material goods are mentioned. This may start to change due to the rise in consoles. I’m not a gamer, but everyone else in my family is and my friends who are ten years younger all seem to play. 

I asked others for their favourite childhood memories and one stood out. It was about being 'bed gnomes' where my friend and her sister used to pile onto their parents bed at the end of the day and tell them all about their day. They called it being 'bed gnomes' and still do this as adults when they are all at home together. I absolutely love the phrase and have a probably-completely-wrong mental picture of her and her sister perched on the bed like a little gnome. I'm seeing pointy bed sheets to give the impression of hats too, but then I do have a massively overactive imagination! 

We have a similar tradition in our house; we all pile onto our bed and eat cake and open presents at breakfast time whenever it is one of our family birthdays. The birthday boy (usually - as I'm massively outnumbered) picks the kind of cake in advance and that is how we start the day. 






Place names can be so evocative too. I recently made some signposts where the places were special names to the pair of them; 'The Crossroads', 'The Lane', 'Daisy Farm' and it was wonderful to imagine what those places looked like as I cut and sanded the wood, assembled and stamped, glued and clamped. 

Where are your happy places? I have different ones for different friends; some I remember through songs we always danced to, some through the trips we have taken together to the cities in Europe, some through the pubs and clubs of our youth. 

With my family and childhood it's more about days out for me; long walks along 'Ilkley Moor', afternoons spent fishing and paddling at 'Jeremy's field' with my cousins, climbing the 'Big Tree' on summer days, pushing my toy doll around 'The Rec', actually swimming in the river at 'Edisford' and walking along the river to the 'Swing Bridge'. 

My husband would be a whole other set of names; 'Paris' as we have a fabulous tradition of always spending the 29th February in Paris, 'Skipton Castle' where we got married, 'Marrakech' where we went on honeymoon, 'Plitvice Lakes' where we spent a memorable holiday, 'Ilkley Moor' where our favourite family photograph was taken, and probably 'Rolls Royce' which is where the majority of our nights out occur! 



I think this is why my signposts are my best seller. They are a gift which reminds people of special places and occasions. 

Recently many of the signposts I have made have been gifts for men; Dad's, Friend's, Uncle's, Granddads... I think I'll be busy with these in the run up to Father's Day, which falls on Sunday 17th June here in the UK. I need up to two weeks to make these (depending on how busy I am) and will take orders for Father's Day until early June. 

They have had names of places in the Lake District for keen cyclists and walkers, names of places people have spent happy times together on holidays, names of rivers for fishermen, beaches and hills. One was even football grounds. Restaurants, boats, favourite real ales, golf courses, train stations, my signposts can say whatever you like, to convey whatever memory you would like to share. 


They are also available as a free standing signpost; just in case you're not a fan of bookends or books on display. 



We all like to be remembered and 'the thought that counts' is certainly true! I know when I receive a gift which is thoughtful it means so much more than the cost. Although, quick plug, my bookends are very reasonably priced and can be found here in my Etsy shop. 

I don't want to end on a plug, it just feels wrong to my British brain! I'm not sure I'll ever get the hang of the sales part of my business. I love the making, and I really enjoy writing a blog, taking pictures and most of the other tasks. I've got to tidy my studio and I don't even mind that, but when it comes to sales I'm still a bit clueless! 

So let's quickly end on birthdays; destabled has just turned One! One whole year. I'm so delighted and I have learned so much. It's still quite thrilling to think that 'stuff' that I've made is dotted around the UK in different people's homes. Sometimes people tell me I'm brave to start a business and just put myself out there, but I don't think I am. I'm just a person with a burning desire to make things and the grit and stamina to just keep doing that. Notoriously the first few years in business are tough, and I do agree with that, but each day you just have to keep going. Keep making, keep talking, keep having the ideas and hopefully one day soon I'll get chance to actually learn to be a better saleswoman. Wish me luck! Or better still - tell me how! 




Sunday, 17 September 2017

Interior design series: No more boring walls! Ten stylish and unusual ways to use wall hooks


You know that feeling when you walk into a beautifully styled shop or cafe and you get an instant wow. Sometimes it's a wow of relaxation and a kind of peace comes over you and sometimes it's inspirational and you start taking note of the design, thinking I could do that. I could totally have a giant hot air balloon in the hallway, a vertigo inducing floor in the kitchen or I could actually keep an all white space clean!! Note - I absolutely could not keep anything clean enough!

But, I do pay attention to that feeling and try to recreate this in my own home, on a smaller live-able scale. I'm a homebody by nature and usually feel that sense of peace when I get in, but I also want to create a bit more wow!

In order to achieve this, I make wall hooks, which are simple and elegant, and which are designed to enhance displays - not to distract from them. Tactile and subtle to show off whatever it is you want to display.

Here are a few images of how I use them in my own nursery...




I bought a grand total of one item of clothing for my baby while pregnant that wasn't practical white stuff. This top was it. I didn't know if I was having a boy or a girl, but I'm a girl and love to wear blue so I picked a baby blue top with gold lettering which says hello world. I love it. But my baby turned out to be rather fast growing and so I decided to display it with a dreamcatcher I made when I did know he was a he. The navy blue wrapped around the circle was the colour of his eyes when he was about a month old. Yes I did take him to a wool shop to colour match!

And then, life took over. I had a tiny baby and was shattered, and I didn't find the time to make displays or share any other images of the hooks I made. I'd like to rectify this here.

Let me share ten different ideas I have for displaying lovely items on my wall hooks. You can use any, but I would prefer you bought mine. They're £8 including p&p for one and £15 including p&p for three in the UK and I do have a few different colour options available. Purchase them here in my Etsy shop destabled.etsy.com

Idea Number One:

Fabrics - fabric quilt/ pieces. I have a tendency to hoard fabrics. I just love them. I have beautiful pieces and lots of them but despite taking a dressmaking course, I have to admit my sewing skills are just not good enough to make the things I can see in my head. Thankfully, my woodworking and crochet skills are, so I get to fulfill my making needs in other ways. I am going to have to destash fabrics and have a big clear out. Has anyone done that? I'm not sure the best way to go about it.

However, I am lucky to have very talented friends and family and my lovely Sister-in-Law has the skills and the patience and painstakingly made this stunning hand stitched quilt for my baby boy. It's so beautiful and too nice to let him get dirty at the moment, so I wanted to hang it on the wall. Heirloom pieces like this can make a real statement.



Idea Number Two:

Somewhere to hang your dog lead or leads. If you're anything like me, you are always looking around for this when taking the dog out. Having a dedicated place is so important, especially if you have an impatient dog who gets totally overexcited when you put your shoes on and then just generally is a bit annoying while you look for the lead.

Idea Number Three:

Handbags - one, two, many! It's kind of the same as above. You are already to go out and just need to grab your going out bag, rather than the luggage sized one with all your work stuff/ kids stuff / general detritus. Having them in one location makes it so much smoother to leave the house and keeps your make up looking fresh rather than ending up all sweaty and flushed before you even shut the door and get outside.



Idea Number Four:

It's very very fashionable right now to have lots of lovely plants in your house and a hanging plant is the best. It looks amazing, makes your home feel better and you get major style points, and something beautiful to instagram. I've been on the plant bandwagon for a while but this year it's started to get out of hand. Nevermind - there are worse obsessions to have.

Here is my lovely hanging plant in it's vintage holder. These plants do look amazing hanging from the ceiling but if you don't fancy drilling lots and lots of holes in your ceiling to locate a joist, then using one of my hooks makes them a sturdy holder - and can be placed where you want them and where the light is right.



Idea Number Five:

Why not use fairy lights, either at Christmas (there I said the C word), or all year round. I absolutely adore the ambience that these lights give and although I did start using these in my student days, I don't think there is anything wrong with using them forever and in every room!

Idea Number Six:

Bunting. Is there anything more cheerful than lovely bunting? Bright or pastel, triangular or semi-circle, fabric or paper, handmade or bought, vintage or new. Whichever your style or preference, this is instant make you smile decor.

Idea Number Seven:

The hooks I make are not just for the more girly items. They would also work very well to display a collection of scarves or ties or cravats. Gorgeous items that don't need to be hidden away; collections should be celebrated if you have the space.

Idea Number Eight:

Statement necklaces. I've always envied people who wear jewellery and who take the time to build up impressive selections of statement necklaces and then actually wear them. I'm not really a jewellery person but I do love the look of displaying your accessories and am sure it would help wear more of them.

Idea Number Nine:

Towels while you get in the shower. I hate leaving them on the floor and I don't think I'm alone in that, so it's great to have a place to hang them while you shower. The large round design of my hooks helps to hold larger and heavier items like towels too.

Idea Number Ten:

Tomorrows outfit - why yes I am going to a ball tomorrow! Haha. In all serious-ness though, I do try and pick out tomorrows outfit the night before, especially when I have a busy morning. It helps to start the day more relaxed.


This is very helpful for little ones too, especially if you may not get them dressed every day. For example my husband always wants me to do this if he is getting the little one dressed as one time he took the baby out in pyjamas. It didn't matter at all - he's  a baby and can totally get away with wearing pyjamas anywhere and everywhere but hubby won't choose anymore as his confidence in clothes wasn't high to begin with. I just want to add, I was super chilled about this, I'm quite laid back about outfits!



I couldn't resist sharing these baby dungarees. Aren't they the cutest little outfit you ever did see!

Do you like these ideas? What would you pick? I'd love to know how you would use my hooks. Don't forget you can buy hooks through my Etsy shop at destabled.etsy.com




Wednesday, 22 February 2017

I have a shop

I've actually gone and done it.

Set up a shop.

Of my own.

An etsy shop. It's here; destabled.etsy.com

I'm so pleased to have taken the leap. I worked hard and followed a free course from Etsy, called Etsy Resolution. It was brilliant, I met a group online of other people in the same boat as me and we all supported each other. The support continues and I need it.

Here are some glimpses of the images I have used for my shop.





I have to admit to feeling scared as I pressed publish. (On Valentines Day, no romantic meal for us, I was working away on my laptop and husband was looking after the baby. No, sadly he isn't in bed at that time. Feel for us).

I've learned so much over the last two years of product development, made so many mistakes and often had to tell myself if it wasn't hard then it wouldn't be worth it! But, that means I feel like I put a little bit of myself into my work. You know, kinda like a Horcrux in a not so evil way! 

So now, I need to add more products, take more photographs and learn how to become a marketing genius. No pressure!